In Joy The Show

In Joy The Show: You’re Not Behind: Reframing Timelines, Finding Joy, and Starting Over at Any Age

Season 2 Episode 5

Welcome back to In Joy the Show—where real talk meets radical joy. This week, Blythe and Kari take a sledgehammer to the myth that you’re “behind.” Behind in career, motherhood, healing, dating, business… you name it. Spoiler: you’re right on time for your life.

Through laughter, honest stories (midlife pivots, divorce, and messy drafts-in-progress), and powerful reframes, they explore the difference between divine timing vs. deadlines, why comparison keeps us stuck, and how baby steps (even half-baby steps!) still count. Kari shares the stop-and-start journey of writing her fourth 30-day guided journal—Serenity—and how the pause added the “missing puzzle pieces.” Blythe offers a goosebump-worthy metaphor about elephants circling to protect the vulnerable—and why women often step into their deepest purpose in the second half of life.

If you’re in a season that doesn’t look like the plan, this episode is your reminder: there’s no invisible checklist, no scoreboard, and no late arrivals. You can begin again—today.

What We Cover

  • Busting the “I’m behind” myth (and how social timelines hijack our joy)
  • Divine timing vs. deadlines: when a missed deadline is actually protection
  • Baby steps, micro-moves, and getting unstuck from analysis paralysis
  • The elephant circle metaphor: midlife, menopause, and women’s wisdom
  • Reframing setbacks so you recover faster—and keep moving with joy

Memorable Lines

  • “You’re not behind—you’re right on time for your life.”
  • “Movement in any direction is progress. If it’s the wrong way, that’s data.”
  • “There’s no scoreboard. My win is living with delight, whimsy, and joy.”

Mentioned

  • Kari’s 30-Day Guided Journals (Self-Love, Boundaries, Vision, and the new Serenity)
  • Blythe’s “reframe” practice and choosing joy in the messy middle

Join the Conversation

Tell us where you’re letting go of the fake timeline—or how your friends “circle the wagons” like elephants when you need it most. Tag @InJoyTheShowPodcast on Instagram or find us on Facebook.

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